2012

From the Arizona Republic today...  I love this!! "Enough already with the guilt-ridden, I'm-so-fat, I'm-so-lazy, I-must-fix-my-life,  NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS.  We're over it.  They don't help.  Get a grip!  THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.  You're fine.  Sure, pick a goal.  Do it.  You're capable.  But NO MORE BEATING YOURSELF UP.  The phrase is not "Have a Guilty New Year."  Take a breath, SEE THE GOOD IN YOURSELF.  If you must make a resolution, start with one of those you're find below.  Because the biggest word in "Happy New Year should be HAPPY."  :-)

"Leave change in the vending machine for the next person to find.  Send a handwritten letter to a child.  With a stamp, write his or her name on the envelope.  He or she should know the thrill.  Kiss someone as if you mean it.  Get 10 things out of your closet that make you feel bad.  Take them to Goodwill.  Frame a piece of art.  Adopt a dog or cat from a rescue organization.  Go 24 hours without the internet.  Throw out the old ketchup packets in your desk drawer.  Find a new recipe.  No, a new one.  When a friend or co-worker loses a loved one, mark it on the calendar, ask how he or she is doing in six months.  Se a late move.  Wear your seat belt, and make others do it, too.  Do one thing you keep putting off.  Laugh out loud in real life.  Dowload music in another language.  Take your child out of school one day and go play.  Get to know the benefit of the doubt.  Leave a wildly inappropriate tip.  Take a leap of faith.  Change the radio station.  Stop feeling guilty unless you really are.  Get a physical.  But something in a new color.  Eat somewhere across town.  Notice someone.  Come up with a new, satisfying cuss word.  Sign your organ-doination card.  Write a manifesto.  Watch an old movie.  Pay anonymously for the person behind you in the drive-through lane at teh coffee shop.  But flowers for new reason.  Eat on the pation in January.  Call a freind in teh northeast as you do.  Find an old friend.  Pick up a rock that catches your eye.  Carry it around in your pocket.  Make a CD or play.ist of the music you loved in high school, play it to distraction.  Spend one day by yourself.  Deal with your photos, (you know what to do.)  Make an appointment with yourself at 3 each day to walk around the block.  Yes while you're at work.  Get a library card.  Dissect the junk drawer.  Who was your teenage pop crush?  Find a photo and print it.  Put the Christmas lights away right.  Pick one thing you don't understand and learn about it.  Stop texting while driving.  Buy new music, and not just the top-selling hit on ITunes.  Pick one negative thing your brain tells you and set it straight.  TAlk to the person in the corner.  Sto for a doughnut, just one.  Put folded-up dollar bills in a spot in your car so you can easily give one to someone on the corner.  Learn the art of deep breathing.  Watch cartoons on Saturday morning.  Stop using made-up words.  Take old towels to a vet or pet shelter.  Write a fan letter.  Vow to stop dressing up your pets.  Register to vote.  Actually vote.  Make a list of your 10 favorite books and re-read them.  Pay attendin to a child who isn't yours.  Vow to look at the cellphone bill and figure out why is costs that much.  Walk up one flight of stairs a day.  When you can do that, make it two.  Mute the commercials.  Ask docts hard questions.  They work for you.  Deal with what holds you back.  Buy a turntable at a garage sale and play your vinyl records.  Smile at someone cute in a car.  Are you a birthday slacker?  Vow not the miss one all year.  Put an old leash in your car in case you see a lost dog.  If you never apologize, learn to do it well.  If you apologize too often, learn to stop. Buy ribbon.  Put a plant on your desk.  Something else should be alive in your cubicle.  If you're in a rut, get out.  Send a thank you note to a teacher who made a difference in your life.  Take a different way to work.  Remember that dream?  Take a baby stop, just one.  Write a love letter.  And ok, sure:  Eat well, exercise more, quit smoking, (no lecture, we just like having your around.)"